For those of you with ODD or know someone with ODD....what has worked for you as far as behavior modification? When my daughter is having her fits (which is on a daily basis) I feel so helpless because I have exhausted everything. Taking things away doesn't even affect her. Last night, as she was being sent up to her room, she yelled "everyone treats me like a ***** and a slut!" !!! Mind you, she has 3 younger siblings that hear this everyday. I can't spank her, can't send her to be alone because she will destroy everything in sight. I sat her down in the kitchen with me and I made her bite on a bar of soap (that made her even more angry). We have a therapist coming to our house for her every week. It's been about 6 months now and I have yet to see results even though I am following her suggestions to the "T".

I do NOT know what to do and this disorder that she has disrupts the entire household (and neighborhood when the windows are open). My older 2 children have been in tears because of this. They are so stressed out and just want her to leave. She is my child, I am not going to force her out of my home so that is not an option.

Any suggestions would be GREATLY appreciated!