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Old Jun 01, 2012, 04:50 PM
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Originally Posted by LovebirdsFlying View Post
Let's say he finds out that a certain something gets under your skin, hurts your feelings, or frightens you. Then he goes out of his way to do exactly that, and laughs at your reaction.
Something similar I remembered yesterday from my experience: he seems to think that dismissing your feelings and/or telling you you are "too sensitive" is a good way to keep you calm and collected. i.e. if you say you're worried about your health, he'll harshly tell you to stop thinking about it. If you've been sad or worried, he'll tell you to "control it" or "snap out of it".
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