Porn just isn't simple, and not everyone feels the same way about it. That has always been a heated topic.

You need to communicate with your husband about this. What is it about porn that you don't like? Is it your self esteem, or your values, morals? Is it the way women are represented? Combo of things? I'm not gonna to tell anyone how they should feel about porn, some people are ok with it, say it is normal, and others are not ok with it for various reasons.

Sometimes we can make compromise and come to agreements about these issues, but we must communicate with each other in order to do so. Try to be open minded and understand where each other are coming from, and this goes both ways.

Perna gave excellent advise on working on your relationship and intimate life.

I don't actually really agree with a lot of porn. I don't like how women are portrayed in a lot of it, like we all get off on zero clitoral stimulation, like being called degrading names, being there soley for the males pleasure like we don't have needs of our own, and displaying that we enthusiastically love being treated like this. I KNOW that all porn is not like that, but a large amount of it is, I know it isn't real, but I still do not like the message it sends. Some women might like that, but for me overall, I don't think women are represented in porn very well. And as far as I can tell that's the mainstream porn, I absolutely do have an issue with people being abused in porn.

I'm sure my boyfriend watches it at times, I don't need to be a part of that tho, and I also know, that he does not compare me, or wish that I would behave that way, or would think about treating a women in such a manor. That's more important to me than what he veiws.