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Originally Posted by Perna
It is not wrong to want love but it does not just come on its own accord. You have seen with your past boyfriends (and your husband's affair) how, when you just let things develop on their own, they do not grow strong or healthy but are like weeds. You have to cultivate love, plant it deliberately and care for it.
Can you talk to your husband, make a plan with him and start again, weed and plant together?
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I totally agree with this. But what is your gut reaction to these words? A) Yes, I think I could grow to love him, I want to try to do this or B) I hate him, I honestly feel he's an awful person, and he's not worth the effort.
Your answer will tell you which route you need to take. But don't wait too long. If you stay on the course you are on, things will go from bad to worse.