Another update: the date isn't going to happen because work schedules were changed, but there doesn't seem to be a lot of interest in rescheduling, just excuses as to why not. There is still a lot of flirting and texting going on, but I'm starting to feel like this is getting pointless. This has happened to me before with a friend where there was mutual interest and a date was set up, then fell apart at the last minute and we never talked to each other again. I'm back to feeling like I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life. Maybe I just get my hopes up too soon and see things I want to see that aren't really there? I know that I'm "still young" and "there's plenty of time" and "the right guy will come along" and "don't rush things", but every day that passes is one less chance, one less opportunity. I'm tired of feeling alone. I don't have a best friend to turn to, I have no siblings, my family isn't all that close. All I'm asking for at this point is for someone to go out of their way to want to spend time with me. I do it for others all the time.