My now ex-someone told me I'm irresponsible because I wouldn't terminate a pregnancy and he cannot be in a steady relationship with someone who can give birth to a baby. Also, he was angry with me because I refused giving him a blowjob- it's a standard for him, duh! Never mind I had been forced to do it when I was sexually abused- I just cannot do it again. He was very coercive and said I should do the things he likes. Then added that if I feel that responsible, maybe I should stop using condoms- men's logic. I might be carrying his baby and already know I'm all alone. And he said that he didn't care about my not having an orgasm cos I didn't help him either. You don't have to say it's for the best. He seemed to be a nice guy but my being pro-life was too much for him to bear. That's the most absurd reason for a break-up. He behaved like a real man and during the last quarrel insulted me in any way he could think of, including my inability to read.