I don't SI very much or very often; when I do it I never do things that would show unless somebody looked closely at my knuckles to see that they were bruised, for instance. It's still something I think I should maybe bring up in therapy. How do I do that? I'm seeing a new therapist, I've met him a couple of times only but I think I am going to be able to trust him, and I think he's committed to try and help me. I don't want to jeopardise that, and I really don't want to blow this up out of proportion. Is it better not to say anything, as long as I am able to fight the urges down? (That approach doesn't look too healthy when I see it written down... ) What do I say to him, and when?