My T knows I SI, but it is rarely talked about - I think he has asked about it 2 or 3 times in over 2 years. I can't remember how T got to know about it, he has never seen it - think he just made a "lucky" guess.
I do think it can be significant to share, to let your T know that sometimes things are so difficult for you.
When I find it difficult to share something, I write it down in an e-mail.
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