Thanks you guys but I will never give away my baby. I can be a good mother. I studied psychology, pedagogics, child's develpoment, language acquisition and stuff like that, so I more knowledgeable about this than a 'couple who would take care of my baby'- that's just awful , my being a single automatically disqualifies me as a mother? I'm not gonna suffer for the rest of my life knowing my child is with strangers. I can be a good mother. I stopped smoking and drinking since the day I think I got pregnant. I'm taking care of myself cos the first 8 weeks are crucial for the development. If the baby exists at all, it is n my uterus already. I get alimony from my father, so my mother would help me getting money from my ex. He would so pay for the baby and the baby would have his surname. Sad he wants the baby to die but I'm not gonna cry about this, it's good enough I'd love it. My mother would help me. I know it's not the end of the world, yet the fact that he suddenly brought that up after 8 weeks is still shocking. He knew I'm against abortion from day 1, how come it suddenly became a problem? I'm still unsure if I'm pregnant at all but I'm ready to take responsibility for my actions. As a linguist, I chose names ages ago: Dąbrówka for a girl and Ziemowit or Mieszko for a boy, no English equivalents, sorry, these are Slavonic names cos I'm a Slav. I just recalled him saying earlier he wants a baby for 50%, yet suddenly killing a baby seems to a better solution for him. Where such people come from? Unbelievable.