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Originally Posted by SoupDragon
My T knows I SI, but it is rarely talked about - I think he has asked about it 2 or 3 times in over 2 years. I can't remember how T got to know about it, he has never seen it - think he just made a "lucky" guess.
I do think it can be significant to share, to let your T know that sometimes things are so difficult for you.
When I find it difficult to share something, I write it down in an e-mail.
Soup
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Yes, maybe I'll write something to him. I don't think I can email him, but I can always write a letter.
I think that if he guessed and asked about it I would be able to tell him. It's bringing it up unprovoked that's hard. But it is significant, I'm pretty sure of that.
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Originally Posted by ickydog2006
I was forced into telling my T, but overall their reaction was very calm. They did want to know if it was a suicide attempt (no), if I ever thought of using it as a suicide attempt (no, I had other methods planned), and we talked about why I did it, what I got out of it. She wanted me to make a contract but I told her that I knew I'd break it. I think we ended up compromising that if I ever cut so deep I was worried about it needing stitches I would go to the doctor and I would tell her.
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Thank you for sharing this. It's useful to know what kind of things they might ask about. For me, it's never a suicide attempt, there are other reasons why I do it.
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Originally Posted by Idiot17
I was forced into telling my t, he didnt let me move or leave before he got an answer. However i was adament not to aay anything else so he knows i si but he doesnt know anything about it.
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Thank you - yes, I suspect that they would insist on knowing about it.
Be safe.