An excellent post to say the least!!!!
I know that there are days that I am so down deep in that hole and that coming here and maybe all i can do is post one or two words of kindness to another soul who is in pain makes me feel for one , that I am not alone in my misery and that I can learn and help others because of all I have been through in my life.. hmm .... won't go into that now...
I believe that many like holding onto their pain for so many reasons some alright, some darn right even more damaging that is where I get confuddled... If I held on to all my miseries I would not be here today because they lead me down a road of no returning..
Thanks for the posting and I hope that it opens some eyes especially to those that are new to the site or new to understanding themselves and their pain... Thank you....linda