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Jun 04, 2012, 03:03 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Please don't EVER buy into that. The behavior of your Ex is NOT due to ANYTHING you did, or ANYTHING about YOU. It's all about his bad behavior!!! It's about his defects of character. He HAS no character!
You are JUST AS GOOD as anyone else, and JUST AS DESERVING as anyone else!!! Remember that God doesn't make junk! Some people get all the 'breaks' in life. And some of us have to work like slaves just to get the bare necessities. Why is that? No one really knows. Is it fair? No, not really.  But I don't think I'd want things handed to me either. LOL
You are NOT useless, unloveable, selfish, hopeless, etc. NONE of us are!!! We were ALL put here for a reason -- it's up to US to find what that reason is.  . And there is always HOPE -- nothing ever stays the same. Things always change. 
I know you're depressed right now, and I hope you're getting help for that, but PLEASE don't buy into any thoughts of being useless, etc. Cause it's just NOT true. You're a great person & you've got to learn to love YOU before you can love anyone else. So go to your mirror and tell yourself "I love YOU" until you believe it!  Hugs, Lee
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