I don't think we ever get over the loss of a good man, like roadie has proven, forty years later the emptiness still hits you at times. All we can do is be gentle with ourselves when it does and accept it is part of the package of loving and loosing a good man, then pick ourselves up and carry on in the knowledge we will be together again one day.

come join us in raising a glass to our good men wherever they may be
hugs