a lease being up is not a good reason to move in together. please trust me on this one. or just watch a few episodes of judge judy. I sooooo wish I had broken up with the first mr hankster after a particularly bad camping trip. I tried, but he and my parents wouldn't let me (we were engaged and a big fat italian wedding was rolling down the hill). he was soooo inconsiderate of me on that trip. so freakin selfish.