I don't know.. the word love is a hard thing for me to say or even believe that people actually believe. I tell my husvand that I love him and my kids and that is it. My bff tells me love ya when we get off the phone, my MIL says it, along with a couple of other people and I just can't say it back for some reason. That whole concept is weird to me.

So, if love came up in connection to my relationship with T it might send me running in a different direction. For me, it may help if there was a distinction made and it was called a therputic kind of love. I do feel like there are all different types of love. I love my husband and kids, but I don't love them each the same way. I do love my bff, but it is a different kind of love than my other relationships. So, it may make sense to make that kind of distinction in reguard to a theraputic relationship.