We do live in the U.S.
She left at the age of 18. She was going to stay with her friend, who would have really taken care of her, but her father said she couldn't.... she would have been safe there if it wasn't for stone age ideals and macho fathers who don't care about anyone but themselves. In she end she went with some guy who took her in, but just wanted to take advantage of her. He succeeded because he left her with a child and forced into signing into a marriage to basically own her. She wanted to escape from one place and ended up in another hell hole and right back into her previous cell. Once she found out she was pregnant she asked her parents to take her back in, which at first they didn't but well not shes been there for 4 years.

She has told her parents about the pain shes gone through. She has opened her self to her mother only for her to tell her she should deal with it. She told her about the cuts that shes maded on herself because she feels empty and numb. Her mother is a selfish hag though who thinks her life was ruined because of her daughter.

I've offered her a home with me, and told her she can choose to come here, nothing was being forced. If she took my offer it would be her home as much as mine, and there would be no form of incarceration, no forcing things upon her, and that my family agreed and were sympathetic. My family cares about what I feel about her, and would gladly bring her into the family as a family member, it doesn't matter that she has a child. I love her little girl as much as her. We aren't backwater inbred imbeciles that are one minded. We dont have tunnel vision and are open to suggestions and talking things out. When i told her this she broke up in tears and asked me to leave her alone for the day. I talked with her about this with honesty and truth, but her past haunts her, and i guess she is afraid of taking control of her life.

Recently we got into a car accident while i was driving her car. We were headed towards a graduation party to get her mind off of the previous day her mom made ignoring ehr and calling her Judas. Unfortunately I did not see a fast driver coming zooming by while making a left turn into the woods. We were both sober, i was obeying the traffic signals and speed limits. It was an accident, a very unfortunate one. We managed to get past it, but she was still shooken up. We're both physically fine but she still thinks about the accident since it hit the rear bumper and she was obviously in the passenger seat. We still going through insurance stuff but it wasn't our fault, but she cant tell them i as driving because of the fear of liablities and her parents knowing i was with her. This isnt the worst part, its the fact that no matter how much it was an accident her mom is blaming her right now, and giving her so much trash talk that she cut herself 3 times now. Sadly im at wits ends. I know my goal is to keep hoping and helping her, but i think im failing if i cant stop her. I could before, but now she doesnt even want to apologize to me or herself about doing it. I dont will not call anybody 911 unless i know her life is in complete danger and she decided to suicide because she has a daugher and putting her through that would probably destory her mind.

Im sorry i've posted so much, but as much as she needs to vent so do I. I just wish I had the solution and maybe a magic lamp to change her life around. Right now i just have my presence doing its best to keep her on track. I'd apprecaite any ideas on how to prevent her from cutting her. I tried telling her to put tape with my number and another friends so she could think about it before she did it, but she used several pretexts and excuses to tell me she couldnt. Anything will do, thank u.