one more thought on having a T that is available every day of the week.

people who are in the professions of helping others have to have time to recharge. who would want a T that spends 98% of her time on you?

where and when would she ever have time to regroup and grow on her personal path? T's also want to have good lives. In order to have a good life, there has to be time for study and reflection. this is on top of all of the other obligations, of life, that they have.

we're at our best when we are helping others. but we all need time away. and if an illness is in the family, her time is consumed with being available for her loved ones.

twisted soul, i know that we've been over this before and i understand that you feel badly when she's not available. as i've said, there are so many people here who could use a hand up and it would help you take your mind off your problems. pat