Thanks for that. She actually emailed me a while back and said she was really happy and everything was going great for her. That was back in January. She said she had gotten married and her and the hubby were going house hunting. I found out from my therapist that it was all made up and one big lie. I didn't even care that she lied though. I mean she must have been really low to make that up. but I don't begrudge her. She had her reasons for it. I just valued her friendship and we could have worked through it. I could have looked past all that.

I think you are right though. Thanks for your input. She must have known that I found out she lied and is embarrassed about it too. But what kills me is she KNOWS me. I don't care about who has what. or who is married to who. I just cared for HER. I guess I am just needing some real life friends. That's all. But thanks so much for posting,