I guess this is me, BarbSue, but I don't think that ANY therapist who has worked with someone for three months should be asking the question, "are you horney" when a client makes mention that she is thinking about dating again. . .. heck, I don't think that a therapist who has worked with a client for two or more years should be putting the question of intimacy in those terms! Maybe it's just me but I have to say it's pretty crude and rude. I think that intimacy and dating is a lot more than being "horney"! Just my take on things.