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Old Jun 05, 2012, 08:43 AM
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You have a mentor,
And you can find one too possibly.

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I cant bring myself to trust a human being. Its impossible for me to say anything remotely personal
These things change gradually. You have to be willing to take small steps.

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I dont recall anything that should cause ne to not trust anyone.
Trust is developed as an infant. If your caregivers are responsive to you emotionally and physically (they come to your aid when you need to eat or get your diaper changed) then you learn that the world can be trusted to take care of you. If you have a parent who doesn't connect with you emotionally as an infant you learn to not trust the world. This can be overcome, however, by finding people that you can trust now and learning to trust them.

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Why is it that ppl that have suffered in the past are the ones helping sufferers now and not sh#* y professionals?
There are a lot of good professionals out there. Your T could be one of them.
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