I haven't read the responses....cuz I have really cruddy internet service right now (sorry)....But what's most important through all of this is how you're feeling about what he says, and how you ultimately react. If you are cowering and burying your feelings, that's important information (victim mentality). If you confront him and put him on the spot about it, that's important information (showing your power). It's all about how you feel during the process and how you decide to handle it. Through every difficult situation I've encountered in T, it has been tremendously valuable to witness my own feelings and actions - and gain the wisdom that it provides.