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Jun 05, 2012, 12:25 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Bless your heart~ I'm so sorry this has happened to you. I know your culture differs from ours, and that makes it very difficult for you.
I'm not totally understanding of your culture but what I do understand is that women do not have the "power" that women have HERE in the United States. Here, we are free to do as we please. If we want to LEAVE, we are free to do so. I'm not sure if you can do the same.
It's very unfortunate that your marriage was arranged. I know that your heart was with another.  But you were true to your committment, and went thru with the marriage -- you're a very BRAVE woman. 
I know you want to get revenge on your husband but that could be VERY DANGEROUS for you!!  I don't think I would take a chance by doing this. I would NOT want to hear of your being hurt in ANY WAY!! I hope you have some kind of support from your family or friends -- do you?? Do you have anyone that you can talk to or lean on?
I cannot advise you to leave. That would have to be your own decision. But whatever your decide, just know that my prayers are with you. Please keep posting and let us know how you are doing. We'll be here for you. Take care of yourself and your child. ((((hugs)))) Lee 
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