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Originally Posted by Idiot17
than why is it that he didnt deal with me the way a sought after t would?
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People have a way of projecting their experiences onto other people. If you don't trust, you will interpret everything that your T does as being untrustworthy, where someone who trusts would interpret what he does differently. You really need to work through these things with your T in order to work past them and be at a better place.
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Originally Posted by Idiot17
I dont understand where my lack of trust comes from, my siblings dont have this specific problem. Though maybe it has to do with a incident that occured when i was younger and they were older so i was maybe side- stepped;
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You definitely have something going on with your mom and this was caused by something. Are you the youngest? Did your mom go back to work? Some other life altering thing happen in your family or to your mom? My oldest sister got involved with a loser guy when I was 10. This changed my childhood and made it turn for the worst. Hard to believe but it stressed out my family and this loser had access and affected us.
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Originally Posted by Idiot17
I am taking small steps as i said it was pretty big for me to actually write in here
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Very good!