hey, bathony - i have a friend who is HIV+ and he is on meds and doing fine. the virus count in his body is so low that it is undetectable.

there is NO need to jump to conclusions. after all, YOU HAVE NOT BEEN TESTED YET. and, you are taking responsibility for HIS actions.

i suggest that you chill out for a few weeks and, in the meantime, get some counseling and tested for other STDs and pregnancy. you have plenty of good years and life ahead of you! please do not jump to conclusions.