Quote:
Originally Posted by WePow
What a powerful session. It is very difficult on those around us when we are growing and expanding our wings. In ways, they may have fear. They see us change and think that either we want them to change or that they need to change because something is wrong that they don't see. When people have that type of fear, they display anger sometimes towards those who are changing.
You have to keep doing what is right for you and growing. But you already know that. :-)
|
that is so right, WePow. there is a lot of anger/fear behind some of his words/actions ... and I think it wouldn't be there so much if he had no love for me. but it also wouldn't be there if he felt secure enough in himself that he wasn't threatened by me being myself, or if he didn't have such doubts/insecurity perhaps about being loved/liked/needed himself. so I get why he's feeling/acting as he in some ways, but I also wish he could change along with me and be truly happy for and with me, so we could be happier together. sigh.
but like T said, I can still be ME and I can hold on to that; I can hold on to the good change in me and control my response to him, even if I cannot control his reactions/responses.