maybe i'm anticipating, but so the whole point of her giant speech in part 1 was that time running out was unsafe?? idk.

plus she disproved her point about belief herself with the diet example! we build self-esteem and worth by meeting small challenges, not by one big decision, not in one fell swoop.

this is not a good r/s, chopin. I wouldn't even call it therapy, not this session. you're never allowed to speak, barely finish a sentence. you're diminished. you don't live up to her expectations. This is just a repetition of your past relationships with women. And from what you've told us of her r/s with her H - well, she's locked into something too, idk what exactly. I know she has her good moments, but this is not one of them. And if this is typical, I say get out, get a MAN. I think a man could be safer for you. You feel safe with H, right? I think that is more important. I am sorry to be so negative, but I do mean to be supportive.