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Originally Posted by ListenMoreTalkLess
But one thing that strikes me overall is that she gives you a LOT back, which you are interpreting as talking too much. The thing that usually irritates me in T with all of my T's is that they don't say ENOUGH to me, don't get me enough feedback, are "stingy" with their words. So I guess I see her general approach as generous.
I am not sure I see where she is interrupting you. To me it seems like a very flowing conversation.
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WOW! wow. so there was a study a few years back, that showed men interrupted women more than vice versa. so this is interesting - you say you like all the info given, because usually your T's are stingy. But the value of what was said is far below the level of advice you yourself have offered here many times. but you discount the subject matter right away. so, my analysis is (not that anyone asked for it!) is that you primarily identified with the manner of speaking of the T, whereas the women took the interrupting correspondingly HARDER. of course, this is only anecdotal evidence, but... interesting!