Well, I was told yesterday by the Family Court Magistrate that the ruling will be on the court transcript, even if it was never filed. He said the other thing I can do is file an ex parte emergency custody order.

Funny thing, or not so funny, but after reading Aspergirls, I found a whole lot of myself in there. I have no idea what to do about this. Should I mention it to my psychiatrist? I've never had neuropsych testing done. Maybe I should just forget about it?

Anyway, I'm getting worried about my daughter's boyfriend. He's back home at her father's house. I feel awful about this, but I've been reading their conversations, (she leaves them open on my computer). Anyway, up to now it's just been about art and writing. Then all of a sudden "Lucifer" starts posting. He's having a conversation with his "other" self, and they are harrassing my daughter. The conversation turned to suicide, and she was telling them about a friend who she tried to talk out of it, and how it bothered her so much she had to stop talking to him. Lucifer says to her, did you fail? And the other one says, maybe suicide is the way to go.

Clearly this boy is a problem. Any advice on how to talk with her about it without revealing that I've read her mail?

Thanks!