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Old Jun 17, 2006, 03:16 PM
Kalamity Kalamity is offline
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_Sky said:

Find some "I" statements for yourself, and stick to your guns. One of the good things about making a statement that expresses how you feel... no one can logically counter it. (You see, you aren't arguing with their point of view, putting anyone down or such..you are stating some truth about YOU and YOU are the one who knows it better than anyone else.)

I just don't explain to others anymore. I just make my statement. It's up to them to figure it out, if they want to. TC

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Thank you. That's very good advice. I'll take some time today and write some "I" statements and then post them where I can actually see them and remember to use them.