Wow that is unbelievably ******! I know exactly how you feel. So frustrating that this seems to happen to so many people. I though my case was unique but apparently not. Same thing happened to me. Want me to kick your T in shins for you? I will you know!!

No seriously. I'm so sorry. It's a bad situation. If you trust your T though maybe its a good thing even if it doesn't feel like that right now.