Sorry I've been away for awhile.....working on my farm & getting things done is a lot of work for one person....love it but it's hard & sometimes feels impossible.
Sounds like you are using some good skills to deal with the issues
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I start to explode but then, I go for a walk of get away and really think, it helps to get time away.
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Being controlled never feels good......that's not the way a family situation is supposed to be in either direction....neither husband nor wife should be controlling.....it's a partnership that needs to be worked at together. Sounds like a lot of marriage counseling needs to seriously be worked on.
Is there any way they can extend the family counseling? Sounds like it's an important thing for your family & to cut if off now might not be the best thing for your family.....you still have so much to work on.
Glad you keep trying to see things with a clear mind & so very glad that you have stopped the drinking whiskey. All I can suggest is that keep working on these issues in your marriage counselling & hopefully your marriage will work into the partnership.