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Originally Posted by CantExplain
Absolutely! I know that, but the subconscious plays by its own rules.
In therapy, actions are forbidden and words are permitted. "I shall speak daggers to her but use none," as Hamlet says. [Thinks: This is probably a Freudian metaphor.]
Many circus acts require a net. But above the net, anything goes.
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You know what I think? (like you care
) I think you have been trying to woo your therapist and are very very angry at her continued rejection. I think these rejections are hard on anyone, but for men, perhaps represent a much more profound threat to their manhood and, perceived genetic fitness, hence the other posts about that very topic.
Women are supposed to like you, but this one - oh this one - provides a different skill set other than breasts.
I think your daggers subconsciously hit right at
your heart. The desire to accept yourself as is, and not in relation to other women, the world, or expectations.
As you find peace within you, the desire to lash out and feelings of tension/frustration will subside. They may seem enjoyable, but are really in opposition with the you that you seek.
You may already know this and continue on anyway. I don't know.
It can't be comfortable and I don't see how it is therapeutic either. But that's just me, and evidently, today, I know everything.
Are we above the net here? I guess that is for the mods to decide...
However, I carry no daggers.