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Jun 07, 2012, 09:08 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Ok ~ If you think you feel better with the antidepressants and they do you more good than not, DON'T LET HIM sway that. It's not about HIM -- take them! You said things got really bad when you went off them, right? Well, stay ON them! Obviously you need them. It's not up to him whether you take them or not - it's all about how you feel.
As far as the reasons you broke it off: You said you misinterpret things he says -- EVERYONE does that at times.  Just tell him you didn't quite understand what he meant! It doesn't have to get blown out of proportion, right? And he has habits that annoy you -- same thing here -- there isn't ONE of us that doesn't have a habit that annoys someone else. We just have to learn to put up with it. LOL OR we can somehow compromise, and come up with a better solution. Then you said you're not physically attracted to him -- but you haven't been attracted to anyone else anyway --??? Plus you can't see yourself with him forever -- you don't say how long you've been with him so far, so I can't remark on this. 
As for rethinking the breakup -- He sounds like a GREAT guy. You just might want to take a little time off and hope to blazes that no one else grabs him before you make up your mind. But this is YOUR decision dearheart. If you feel that this just ISN'T right, then trust your GUT instincts, and make YOUR decision. Usually your instincts are right.
I wish you the very best -- my prayers are with you. God bless. Hugs, Lee
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