More and more I stick by my theory that it is the immediacy of email that is such a sticking point. Not the writing of info for therapist to read. Try writing and posting 10 letters a day - I bet most people would not do it.
I am sorry it is so hard as the seeming unilateralness of the decision. But LMW21 - did you get to have input into keeping 2 emails a day? Have you discussed different things you might do that give you a sense of control or at least some partnership in the discussion of boundaries and can you realize he cannot be at any client's beck and call daily? He cannot (and I as others believe never should have tried to) keep handling multiple emails from any client every day. I don't do it with students. It would make me crazy to do so and would not help the student.
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