Your post is pretty concerning. I don't believe it is healthy to feel that intensely about someone you pretty much don't know.

Respecting that he puts time and money into the site is fine, and so is liking him for that. 'Loving' someone with the strength you seem to with so little real connection is concerning.

If you have a T, it might be a good idea to bring up this obsession so that you can direct your affection more appropriately.

Good luck.