My partner knows I'm on here reading a lot. She's made a couple kidding comments about it, but that's it. She spends her time the way she chooses and so do I. We're both adults and get to make those choices for ourselves.

But we both also feel free to ask for attention from each other if we feel like we need it--with the understanding that the other person gets to say no.

Also my partner would no more read my posts on here w/o my permission than she would read my journal which I also occasionally choose to share with her. Just like I don't read her journal.

It sounds like your husband wants more attention but doesn’t know how to ask for it, so instead he attacks what he believes is taking you away. Attacking is more comfortable than being vulnerable and asking for what we need.

I am really glad you were able to process this stuff with T2.