Sad to say, I really do not have much of a life, maybe that is why I am here and still awake. . . becomes "me" time, that is what my pdoc and therapist say, "you need time for yourself, you are a caregiver to a mom with dementia and health issues, housewife,mom, taxi (100 miles on an average day), and an errand girl Oh well, maybe I can whine myself to sleep, ha!ha! and not others, I can bore an insomnia to sleep, LOL

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SOLON