i thought i was one case in this whole world too but now i find out there are so many similar cases everywhere. but what i don't understand is why God gave us the wrong partner who will just fill our life with soooo much suffering.
i'm going through same situation with my husband. he cheated and expects me to forget and forgive as he said sorry but ITS NOT THAT EASY. you are always on your gardes for fear you find out something else.
at the beginning when i found out the relationship as you mentioned odoyle was great never as before but then the cheat would always come to my mind and now i'm on a point where i don't want to continue. i just want him to be around for the sake of our daughter and not to expect anything from me emotionally because i can't trust again and i'm hurt deep down.
If anyone of us three find out a way please do share because i feel i'm going down now near to deppression and of all its not easy when you are alone..