I am a female with a male T.. I am working on being able to talk to him about things of a sexual nature. He knows that I have trust issues with men, but in other ways we have such a great connection... That I think I can get past the male part and eventually be able to to talk about those touchy things. It is good for me, I am learning in a safe enviroment that there are men worthy of trust. I do assume that it would be much eaiser for me to talk to a female T about sex, ra, etc.. but for now I am very content with my male T.