I am not a brand new member, my user name used to be Sujin, which is my online name and my Asian name (I am Eurasian). I wanted to choose a name that would be more private, since some people I know in life know my Asian name and I had the fear that they might come across this site and figure out it was me, sounds paranoid I know, but I have issues with privacy.

I have missed being here, but I felt (at the time) that it would be better to delete my account because I felt I was becoming overly concerned with what others thought (as far as what I wrote in my posts) and I felt I was becoming too dependent on this site. Now I realize that not everyone is always going to see eye to eye, and as far as being too dependent, well I feel that I need the support here and I like to give support as well. I have met some wonderful people here, this site is a wonderful place! I hope I am still welcome here.

Thanks!

Zen/Sujin or whatever you choose to call me