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Originally Posted by CantExplain
Absolutely! I know that, but the subconscious plays by its own rules.
In therapy, actions are forbidden and words are permitted. "I shall speak daggers to her but use none," as Hamlet says. [Thinks: This is probably a Freudian metaphor.]
Many circus acts require a net. But above the net, anything goes.
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Who ELSE are you going to talk to about this stuff? "Can I talk to your manager?" No! T is IT! Beauty (or not) is in the eye of the beholder. What CE "sees" in his T's physical characteristics is purely subjective. My T is considered cute, but a lot of times I just see my pervy Uncle Bob. Or my dad's hands. etc. With an experienced T, they're like an actor, their body is their instrument. Remember mcl's weird and creepy T even said he was taught to use every part of himself, like Italians use the pig?
Anyway, I see nothing wrong or amiss here. You may not want T picking YOU apart like this, and they're not - t is not about T's fantasies and past, it's about the clients. It's not an equal r/s. Sometimes they give more.
P.s. I assumed he was talking about a parent.