Who ELSE are you going to talk to about this stuff? "Can I talk to your manager?" No! T is IT! Beauty (or not) is in the eye of the beholder. What CE "sees" in his T's physical characteristics is purely subjective. My T is considered cute, but a lot of times I just see my pervy Uncle Bob. Or my dad's hands. etc. With an experienced T, they're like an actor, their body is their instrument. Remember mcl's weird and creepy T even said he was taught to use every part of himself, like Italians use the pig? Anyway, I see nothing wrong or amiss here. You may not want T picking YOU apart like this, and they're not - t is not about T's fantasies and past, it's about the clients. It's not an equal r/s. Sometimes they give more.

P.s. I assumed he was talking about a parent.