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Originally Posted by WikidPissah
Attachment is my desire to connect with him on a regular basis.
Transference is my desire to back up because I believe he will use my attachment to take advantage of me.
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nice! i like this....only thing i would change for me is, "transference is my
defense mechanism to back up because I believe the attachment is going to hurt. Not in a way that T will use it to take advantage of me, but just in....letting myself be attaached to someone who is only in my life for 45min a week is not a good idea....that is going to hurt and cause pain."