I think it's useful to just say what you said here. Take your post in and read it if you need to. IME you can really tell how good a T is by how they respond when you basically say, you suck. Maybe that's actually the life task that you need to engage in right now to get yourself on track-- you need to speak your blunt, chaotic truth.

I think that consulting with another T or just going to another T because you're having issues with your current T is only useful after you've had the discussion with your current T. And IMO any competent professional would send you back to talk to him before engaging in any processing with you.