TD, I know you are not unwanted. What do you think the hardest hurdle in getting a T is for you? Is it the DID? Is it your insurance or lack of insurance? Are you considered disabled? Every county has a disability advocate...here it's called Rights of the Disabled...can you find that and request help? Have you contacted National Alliance of the Mentally Ill (NAMI) and asked them for help? Also your states website should have a health and human services page with contact numbers on it.
You may have to do a lot of leg work and make a lot of noise, but there should be an option somewhere. Keep calling until you get a response.