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Old Jun 08, 2012, 03:40 PM
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Sounds to me like wife & daughters might need more counseling if they're throwing the kind of comments that anger and HUMILIATE you! Humiliation is NOT something that belongs in a family -- no way. That's hitting below the belt. It a scheme of trying to break someong, and that's a dirty trick.

I'm glad you're holding your temper, 1tash1, and I KNOW how hard it must be for you. NO ONE wants to be humiliated. It hurts - and when we get hurt, we tend to hurt back. So it's good that you take a walk to clear your head.

As you've stated before, things didn't get like this overnight, so they're not going to get better overnight either. It's going to take time and patience, and you're using a LOT of patience. I know how hard that is for you. But it will pay off in the long run.

Kids learn what they live & what they SEE - so hopefully your girls will see & learn what you're doing, and will come to understand that you've changed for the better. And I KNOW that they know you LOVE them
Keep doing what you're doing 1tash1. God bless. Hugs, Lee
Thanks for this!
eskielover