I was trying to not post, SR, because you KNOW how I feel about this situation already, but GEEZ! I cannot believe how intrusive your husband is and controlling and . . . YOU didn't call him an A-HOLE. WE called him an A-HOLE because he IS and we would love it if you could see that and demand that he treat you with the respect that you deserve and respect your boundaries. You are not HIM and he does NOT get to dictate your behavior.

Ugh. Have to stop. Sorry. SO so sososososososo ticked off on your behalf.