Wow. "cold eyes, unreadable mouth and non-performing hair. too thin, sexless and still." That's what CE SEES. It's not FACT. It's probably transference? It's more about CE than about T, everything we say in session is. Why is everyone assuming these are insults? CE can't read her mouth, maybe other people read it just fine. Again, if these are things CE needs to process, t is the place. I don't think he's doing it to be mean. He's talking about what is important to him. Maybe T is thinking, "finally! we're getting to blah blah blah."