I have a difficult time achieving orgasm as well, even if I'm doing it myself. I know what feels good and what works and it still usually takes over an hour, and it's nowhere near as good as movies portray it. It's taken years and lots of doc visits for my husband to realize it's nothing he does wrong.
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God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.
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