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Hi everyone inside GypsyRosalie. You all do not know any of us.
We do care though. Maybe the best friend getting married is scary? Your friendship will change a little but you will all still be important. If you all can remember, you all have each other. So what some like to do different things. Even the less positive things have a similar goal: provide adequate distraction to the current stress and feelings. A little cleaning always has helped us unwind a bit....get engrossed with cleaning. Something warm to drink with a stuffy can be a reward for the great cleaning job. Your best friend may not understand how hard the wedding is for you all. Perhaps you could write her a letter...you do not have to give it to her...just release the emotions onto paper. You all may feel better...or you all may decide to take a nap after writing the letter. Not much of an alcohol drinker, but the fizzy seltzer water feels like what we think a drink must feel like. So drinking a soda can help us feel better. Normally we only have seltzer water in the house, but we have bought soda when very stressed.
As scary as change is...it can be positive. Often the positive part cannot be seen immediately, but it is there.
Everyone take a deep breath...remember the love you have for the best friend, breathe out. You all will survive this Wedding and the changes. Look you have all survived thus far so you all know how to do something!
Let us know how things work out...not the wedding...how all within handle the wedding.
Here is a gentle hug too.
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